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Welcome to my page. I'm living in The Netherlands (Europe) I love to make new friends especially from different countries. So messages and questions are always welcome ^ ^ In case you don't like something, send me a message. Then I can do something with it. I hope you enjoy!
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Anonymous said: I cant believe you used the word that i always use when it comes to anyone who asks me about getting married or being with someone. "Acceptance" i think thats the true essence of true love, mutual acceptance. Can u tell me more about the person u would want to end up with?

Ahh and for what else I’m striving for? True love who will never end, indeed.
I want to end up with someone who loves me in the way I am, because I will never try to be much better than how I really am, because that can be disappointed later. Only if I have a bad thing, and he wants from me to change that, then I understand and will for sure.
I want him to love my heart with his heart, and not only the way I’m looking like, because that will for sure fade away.
I want him to respect me
I want him to be my bestfriend, to have fun with me, and not only to keep serious all the time, because believe me I can’t keep the whole time serious, I have some (well pretty a lot) of childish blood. I’m only serious at times where I have to be serious.
I want him as my 2nd soul, What I mean with that is : No secrets how worse it is, no lies, no selfishness. Just him be open with me, and only telling the truth.
I want him to keep forever with me even in Jannah, and never switch me for another wife, or marries another wife, because there is something or because I’m not good enough. I mean we have mouths and we can talk it out, and I will change if there is something.
I want him to practise with me my religion, because I want to keep with him forever what also means in Jannah.
I want him as a husband and not as a streetguy or something. Someone who knows how to take care, and is kind. (Good heart).
That’s it. I don’t care about outer and other stuff. Just his heart is more than enough for me.
I just want something succesfull.
I know I’m weird, and think weird.

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Anonymous said: If you get to know a guy within limits and you believe that he is a decent and proper guy would you get married to him in a year or two if he asked you?

Yeah 2 years is perfect, but I’m really kinda strict when it comes to marriage. I don’t say fast yes. No I’m not asking for perfect, but I mean I’m starting a new life with someone where I’ll keep with till end. So it must be a good hearted person who is real, otherwise bye bye. If I just would accept someone I would be already married right now :”).

Anonymous said: Your reply to that anon kinda makes it look like the only way to strengthen our deen is through fear? Kinda skeptic about that..

Maybe because fear helps a lot? I can tell you, Fear helps a lot, and that’s what we have to be for Allah too. It keeps you faster away from sins than anything else. It’s also mentioned in the quran, and a7adith.
The prophet (pbuh) said:
“Always remember the destroyer of joy (physical pleasure): death.”
“Remember death when you are praying.”

Islamqa.info: [The Muslim must live his life in a state between fear and hope, fearing his sins and not feeling safe from the Plan of Allaah, and not being certain that he will enter Paradise. For the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them), even though they were so righteous and pious, were not like this, rather they feared their Lord and worshipped Him with fear and hope. So the Muslim must obey Allaah and repent and hope for the mercy of Allaah, knowing that Allaah forgives and accepts the repentance of the one who repents to Him, so he hopes that Allaah will forgive him. He knows that Allaah accepts and loves the righteous deeds of His slave, so he strives to do righteous deeds hoping that they will be accepted. If he lives in this state, fearing his sins and hoping for the mercy of his Lord, he will strive to worship Him and keep away from sin, asking Allaah to reward him for his righteous deeds until he meets Him when He is pleased with him, and he seeks refuge with Allaah from his heart being turned away or his situation changing, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to pray, “O Controller of the hearts, make my heart steadfast in Your religion.”]

Of course it’s not the only way, but it is the fastest way.
You can strenghten your imaan also by duas, and prayers etc, but she or he already said she/ he doesn’t pray really, and she/he already tried duas. So I suggested this, because I have experience too, and by me it helped me through fearfulness to strengthen my Imaan.

Anonymous said: I didn't say you said that I was just asking sorry if I offended you

No it’s okay sis, you didn’t. I was just surprised. Ask further a shay5 if you still doubt about it. They know everything correctly the best. I just learned this all from books, videos, islamqa.info and from the mosques.
Have a wonderful day sis (n_n)

Anonymous said: Assalamo alaikum,i have a problem which is that i dont have a strong believe in my Duas and i have tried a lot of times even thousands times to change my self but every time i started doing wrong things again,,i am losing my religion and faith,i dont pray five times a day,i have become an addict of bad habbits and deeds including music,,i desperately wanna change myself,i wanna become Allah's favourite,obedient and amenable worshipper,,,kindly help me plz,,,i will be very thank ful:(

Wa3alaikm Assalaam,
Aaww I understand you totally…I was in a time were I had the same. Allah is testing you.. You should be strong no matter what, I know it’s difficult, and I will help you with it. I changed myself by myself even when it was so damn difficult, but I succeed. If you think you can’t change yourself by yourself, let me help you. I will remind you every time, and make you scared for the death, because that keeps you away from sins.
Further you can pray Qiyam Alayl (heavily recommended!), you can fast( Helps too! Because if you don’t have enough energy, you won’t make sins so fast), Make a promise with yourself that when you miss a salah you’ll lose one euro/dollar/dirham or whatever (Let your mom control you, so that it will be taken as serious (You don’t have to tell her that you don’t pray, but just tell her: We live in a worse time, and I’m afraid for losing a Salaah, Can you control me? If I don’t pray I have to give you money who go to poor people)), Watch a lot of videos about death (Wallah it helps! It’s interesting too), Visit graves (Remembers death), Watch things about the hour (It makes you cry, and worrying),
We are living in a difficult time..where we can lose our faith fastly..and when we die we will regret as no one…
If you want you may show me also who you are, and I will help you further with it. I’ll make you stronger even when this is just online. I will do everything to help you, but only if you want. If you think I’ll have enough from the tips above, than it’s okay. I just wanna let you know that I’ll help you with pleasure.

Wasalaam your sister ^_^

P.s.: Watch this video in the night:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUGad4TC6FM

I’ve watched it, and I kept the whole night crying (not that I did ever something bad or something), because it scared me a lot, and especially in the night you can concentrate very good on it. It helped with making me stronger in my belief. Even when I was in that time like Nááh I” m not in the mood to watch an *Islamic* video, but it did keep me watching it till the end, and very happy I’ve watched it whole.

Anonymous said: so am I a bad Muslim for not wearing a hijab and dressing a certain way?

Where the hell did I said that? Of Course not. It depends what’s in your heart. You’re just disobeying God by this. That’s it. It belongs to the major sins for not wearing a hijab, but that’s your choice. I’m just a human, and God knows the best.

French: Je ne sais pas.
English: I don’t know.
Dutch: Ik weet het niet.
German: Ich weiß es nicht.
Spanish: No sé.
Classic Arabic: لا أعرف (La a3rif)
Gulf Arabic: ما أدري  (Ma adri)
Maghreb Arabic: ما عرفتش (Ma 3raftsh)
Berber/Tamazight: Wa sineg.
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